Its great that you can talk with your husband and that he is supportive. The guilt and some of the jealousy issues are hard and that takes time. You have to decide if it is worth it. Some people are capable of loving more than one person at a time, and I've found that some women enjoy a good hard fuck with no love involved.

I think its wonderful that women are becoming more sexually free. Open communication is the key Even though you may have an issue, it sounds like you are working on them, and that is how it should be.