One must be "born again", or more literally, "born from above."
We are given a new nature when we believe.
The Holy SPirit is tangible inwardly.
I used to like to watch porn ... I did not "have any conflict, the desire went away.
Or one time an employer made a mistake on my check and double paid me for the month. Well over $1,000... Before Christ I would have kept it and not said a word. I wanted to give it back because of the Spirit's influence.
We cant always do whatever we want to do, What if I want to drive 100 mph, my car will do it and I can handle it. so .... ill still get big ticket if i get caught.