There are differences between men in women, in a general sort of way.

But its only a generality. Women like a little respect too, but in general its usually more important for men. Men like a little love too. Its not a black and white, absolutely one size fits all thing. Its a problem with our culture’s black and white thinking.

But there are differences. it should be obvious. But there are cases where it is reversed and that is ok too.

Respect is more important to me than love yes. But respect matters to all people.

Even in sex, men are generally more open to casual sex with a stranger than women and do not confuse that with the love they feel for their partner. Women are less like that. But it's only a generalization that is often true. I'm sure there are cases where its the opposite for some people.

Different does not mean better or worse. Equality does not mean we all have to be the same. It's ok that men and women have some fundamental differences.