There is a great book called Sacred Patheways (Maybe its spiritual pathways?) by Gary Thomas. It sounds a bit new agey but it is not at all.

You can find it on amazon cheap because its been out several years.

He talks about things like spiritual personalities, and how we are all different. We need to find things spiritually that fulfill us, and it is not the same for everyone.

I have learned. I go to church because I need to. i dont enjoy it most of the time, i dont feel guilty anymore because I realize that just is not who I am.

I need to be in nature to experince God. CHurch does not do it for me, but a 10 mile hike in the woods is about as worshipful as I can get.

I think sometimes we keep trying things that just dont fit our personalities because we think they are the spiritual thing to do.

our spiritual nourishment can come from many places, and it isnt the same for everyone. Maybe try some new stuff :)

Anyways just wanted to recommend that book.